That elicited a giggle out of me, for real. For a minute, I thought it was sarcasm, because she couldn't possibly think she's an honest person. It seems almost comical that this is all still going on, because it's obvious that it's not getting to me and Erik. She's just making herself look more and more unstable.
First, let's look at what she says to me:
"Besides all the bad memories...He was a great guy...loving, sweet,....ect...he has many good things in him. But Don't change your feelings for Erik just coz of those bad news... His a great a guy..."
Oh. How cute, right? First of all - uhm, duh. I'm the one who's going to marry him, I care about him, I know him better than she ever did. Oh, and I actually put effort into being good to him, instead going out of my way just to hurt him - you know, that's what most decent girlfriends do. Hopefully she's learned that by now. Second, she was lying through her teeth anyway. To anyone else but me, this is the "truth. "
"lol.. like i care.. his far now and gone.. i don't really give a care if they break up cuz of our past."
Hah, you wish, right?
Sometimes, I need a good sadistic laugh, and that's pretty much what this crap is good for. Thanks for teaching me not to give a damn about opinions of people who honestly don't even matter. Five, ten, twenty years from now, Erik and I are probably gonna look back at this and laugh.
I have school, I have Erik, I have family - I basically have a whole world going for me, and a whole world standing behind me. So whatever, I don't look for trouble, but I don't run away from it either. The way the whole situation these past few days went down because somebody was pretty effed up. Maybe in these people's world, it's funny to try and pit people against each other, to try and ruin relationships. But in a strong relationship, you look over your shoulder and laugh at the people whose egos are inflated enough to make them think that they actually matter.
I'm proud of my hubby for wanting to handle things - I wish he didn't have to, but I'm glad that he wanted to, I guess. We've come to a point where we realize that what matters is us, and how we feel about each other, and the problems that arise because of people just trying to knock us down is secondary at best.
Now, one more quote from over 2 months ago, just for good measure:
It's fine-after all i want'd 2 tell u...cuz i dnt want u guys to break up...the way we did.
if i was careful enough ... i wuldnt lost him.
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